What does it mean to be a soul whisperer? And for those who know me, why does my name appear to be a typo? Hear me out on both…as the story unfolds you will hopefully feel more clarity, or more accurately - understand with more clarity - what the intention is around both.

At birth I was a surprise, or rather my birth and gender at birth was a surprise. Or was that the intention of my birth? One will never know (or will they)? 🤔

You see my parents were unaware at the time, and maybe still are, that my birth (just like your birth) was designed with purpose and intention. Yes, right down to the precise time of my birth and even location at birth it was always destined to be as it was. So you see, this is where it all begins for all of us - you, me and everyone around you. Life may seem full of coincidences, yet when you are connected, like I am now, you will begin to see that there really is no such thing as coincidence. Just choices, or rather consequences, of choices - or even more accurately - consequences of all of our choices…in any given moment, on any given day and no matter the situation.

So why am I sharing this, perhaps, rather long intro in my “about me” section? And why would this even matter to you? Well if you are like me, and I know most likely you are or you wouldn’t have found your way to me, then I know you know that something bigger than us exists. Something that is hard to describe yet so often easier to feel, or at least it is easier to feel the more connected we are to that something bigger than us. And isn’t this the point, I mean purpose, of life? To feel, or rather, be more connected to something bigger than us? Or more accurately to be feeling that we are here for something bigger than us? Like a bigger purpose or to achieve something greater than just being us?

Yes, this is what I thought too, or rather, what I now know with more certainty. Since following a difficult, or rather, challenging divorce, I found myself extremely disconnected from myself…and that bigger mission/purpose in life that so many of us crave to feel connected to. And isn’t it hard to feel this disconnection no matter what it is that “wakes us up” or “shakes us” so that we can see, or rather, feel what we are missing? Or more accurately, what we are disconnected from?

So it was from the pain, or more accurately, the shock or anguish of the divorce that I was convinced of this bigger picture - or shall I say - I became more aware of this bigger world we all live in. It all started when I was reunited with a childhood friend, someone I thought I’d known for years yet it turned out that we never really knew each other. Isn’t this the way we could describe most of our relationships, if not, more of our relationships with most things than not. Because, after all, it is how we perceive the world around us that really matters to how we see those around us. And this is an interesting yet very meaningful or rather important distinction isn’t it? Where we place our attention and with what intention, means everything to everyone and anything.

So back to the point where it all began. When Loryel and I were reunited, or rather reconnected, at first it seemed to be a “coincidence” (you see there’s that word again). It wasn’t until shortly after our reconnection that we both realized that it was neither a coincidence or a lack of coincidence but more importantly, and even more accurately, it was a result of a whole lifetime (and beyond) of choices that we both had made which led us to this exact moment in time in this time, space, reality. So in actuality, it is never about just one choice which leads you to where you are in your life right now, but rather, more accurately, it is a million or more choices that we make over several lifetimes, or a few for some, which lead to where you are right now - at this exact moment. And isn’t it interesting to think about that? Isn’t it really fascinating to learn that it is the sum of all your choices which really make up the most of your choices, if not more often than not, the majority of your choices lead to the majority of your results in your life and across all your lifetimes.