Advance your personal power through expanding authentic confidence
By Laura Kyttanen & Laura Brennan Ballet
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What if you could reimagine the environment of your mind and renegotiate the stories from the past in order to disrupt outdated behaviors and habits that do not align with our present values in order to elevate your potential? How would you redesign your present mindset?
As the architect drafting the energetic blueprint, would you activate confidence, advance a positive intention and begin to explore a limitless mindset, or would you become distracted from the shadows, reflecting conflict, struggle and suppressed energy?
According to research, our brain contains about 100 billion cells. The hippocampus brain region, where most of the brain cells appear to be produced, makes 700-1500 new neurons daily. The thought is if we can increase the number of neurons, we may be able to improve how we learn new information.
If there is a possibility to become the creator of a new way of thinking, shouldn't we attempt to think differently? A daily practice of renewal, re-energizing our mind, infusing our biology with empowering messages, and fine tuning our awareness so we may reach elevated states of higher intelligence, can now be part of our overall well-being and professional structure.
Applying new skills, practices, and principles that advance our evolution, can support healing, communication and community.
What visions could you bring to life, and how would you empower your choices knowing that daily expansion is available?
Today, more than ever before, we have tools, processes and access to levels of new knowledge and New Sciences that support the exploration into personal and professional challenges.
Here in this unique, and at times, complex world it is essential that on all levels we create a culture of meaningful dialogue, compassionate leadership, and room for visionaries to express their brilliance.
There is no longer a separation between who we are and how we show up at our organizations. When leadership values each individual and sees the very best in their creative work force, there is room for higher understanding and vision.
As in our personal life, our professional atmosphere needs to be intentionally designed. When there is fluidity, agility, and a built in navigation system ready to be leveraged, pivoting is less stressful and confidence has room to grow and shine. Disruption is part of the human condition, being present in the now, showing up to greet the pace of change, and to manage the disruption, will empower the outcome.
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In the Zielo Studio Coaching program, one of the competencies, “Confidence is Authentic,” supports our advancement by empowering our ability to manifest our desires by becoming 100% accountable for our energy and thoughts, leading with our values, and, often the most challenging, to ignite our personal power.
People often mistake control and personal power. Letting go of control is actually when you have more personal power. This is when you understand that all you have power over is yourself.
As shown in the images below, when coaching in the metaverse there is a lot of power in adding visuals to demonstrate the connection of thoughts and feelings. Now the client can clearly see that trying to control people, circumstances or life leads to a disempowered state with a lot of contracted energy. This ignited awareness enables the client to create space for new beliefs which not only empower the client, these intentional thoughts create momentum of focused energy towards what the client actually desires. Thus, leveraging this immersive technology acts as a catalyst for transformation.
It has become hard for people to understand the difference between control and personal power because we are often taught to strive to achieve something outside of ourselves through force, even if it ends up depleting us. Which is why it doesn’t surprise us that 72% of respondents to our Mindset Energy assessment actually agree that having control is important to them. No surprise there is a global mental health pandemic. Control does not lead to our wellbeing.
This is why we guide our clients to release the need for external recognition or proof and instead focus on your inner power and guidance system - your feelings - telling you when to pivot and adjust to the changes with confidence and ease.
To bring this more to life, we share a client story that demonstrates the impact of advancing your personal power to expand authentic confidence which has a massive impact in all areas of your life.
Recently there was an opportunity to support a client in advancing her personal power to expand her authentic confidence.
Due to the absence of her mother throughout her childhood, she suffered from shame, low self worth, lack of responsibility, excessive need for control, and feeling helpless in her own ability as a mom.
We explored the ‘feeling’ of confidence, and her accountability in aligning with that present day choice. To become a confident woman through a positive mindset, set her apart from the pattern of her mother’s choices. This allowed the client to experience 100% accountability which began the process of advancing her authentic confidence.
As we reconnected with her past, she became aware of several beliefs that were limiting her confidence. With this realization, she was willing to take back her power by reimagining her desires and beliefs regarding motherhood. For instance, she realized that she could not control her mother’s actions, however, she could choose to be a mother that stays and supports her children. We focused on gaining momentum by setting an intention: “I am a present mother for my children, and I will support them their whole life through.”
The client was aware and willing to change, yet still unsure as to how she would become this type of mother as she did not have a mother to model after. This created resistance. Which is why one of the most helpful missions for this client was ‘Zero Resistance.’ We were able to acknowledge the moments where the flow between her and her children were natural and nurturing versus more forced and controlling. As a result, she was able to see new perspective and realized that she was capable of being a good mother and that she loved her children deeply. When any resistance came up, she reminded herself that she could leverage her personal power and become HER version of the mother she always wished for.
By integrating a daily practice of ‘Zero resistance,’ she was able to get into and maintain the flow of attracting what she desired. As she shifted her focus, feelings and thoughts away from what she did not have in her childhood, and turned toward designing the relationship with her children the way she wanted, she became the mother she never had and so much more.
And as she advanced her personal power, it expanded beyond the relationships with her children, into her professional life. The more she felt good about herself, the more she was able to bring that energy into her work and all other aspects of her life.
As we show up to leverage our personal power and expand our authentic confidence, it acts as a catalyst for advancing our potential which extends beyond our own world, it ripples out to advance the collective power.
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